Tuesday, October 28, 2008

mi vacation 10/16/08 - 10/22/08

We had a wonderful vacation to MI. It was kind of split up into 3 parts. Part one was traveling by train from MSP to Holland, MI and staying a few days by my brother M and s.i.l. A. The train was definitely the best form of travel for us with 2 wiggly little kids! We got on at 8 in the morning on Thursday, and would have gotten to Holland by 9:30 that night, but there were some mechanical difficulties with our train and then another one that we came upon on the tracks along the way, so we didn't end up getting in until midnight. LONG DAY, but the kids did great and it was so nice to be able to just focus on them and not having to strap them in and try to drive. It was also neat to see the beautiful colors in the trees the whole way out!

M & A live about 5 blocks from the train station in Holland and came and picked up our luggage with their car and we walked with the kids to their house as to not have to mess with the car seats. Friday we hung out with Uncle M and Auntie A and their bunnies, R & C (more on them later!), and just recoop'd from the trip and had a great time catching up and playing together. We walked downtown Holland and ate at Froggy's (great hamburger and fries joint!) then spent the afternoon at a park and got some fun pictures.

Saturday morning was also just fun hanging out with M&A and also making a trip out to Holland's thrift stores looking for swimsuits for all of us since we left ours at home. (Found ones for all 4 of us for less than $10!) We then headed out on part 2 of the vacation for Hudsonville to S's Uncle D and Aunt S's house. S's whole immediate family had also made the trip out to MI and Uncle D and Aunt S hosted a big Aukeman gathering (S's mom's side of the family) since we were all there. We had Gpa A, all his children, all his grandchildren and great-grandchildren (26 of us) there which was a lot of fun! It was good to catch up with Gpa A, cousins, and aunts and uncles and we had a great time chatting and eating yummy homemade pizza. We of course took big family pictures too, but on someone else's camera so I don't have those to share right now. I did get a 4 generation picture for W (he is named after Gpa A) and a family shot of us though!

All of us B's stayed in our favorite Grand Rapids hotel Saturday night (good prices, pool - hence the need for swimsuits, insanely good hot breakfasts, nice rooms - although we did stay on the 2nd floor rather than the 3rd this time and had a lot more stomping above us...some suspiciously 6'9'' sounding =). We didn't get to enjoy as much time together at the hotel Saturday night as we all stayed longer at Uncle D and Aunt S's so had to get kids down right away. Sunday morning we all went to different churches. We attended Ideal Park CRC where parents of our good friend N K go. It was fun to surprise them and chat with them a little bit! Then off to Gma B's apartment for the B gathering (S's dad's side of the family) where we had a nice lunch and visit with all of us, Gma B, and Uncle S and Aunt B. Once again we took more family pictures on someone else's camera, but I did get another 4 generation shot for W. It was beautiful weather out both Saturday and Sunday so it was nice to be outside to take pictures and let the kids run around and play.

We then all headed back to the hotel and the kids fell asleep on the way back. Gpa A was kind enough to let us borrow his van while we were there so we didn't have to rent a car. Thanks Gpa A!

We swam in the pool back at the hotel. This was by far G's favorite part of the hotel stay! We then went out for supper with J&C and family and hung out the rest of the evening. Funny note, I brought my camera down to the pool and wanted to get a pic of the cousins playing together, which they were very nicely! But when I told them all to just look at me and smile, they proceeded to line themselves up on the top step first - do you think they had been in just a couple of organized pictures in the past 2 days?

The rest of the B's headed back towards MN on Monday, but we stayed a couple of extra days back with M&A for part 3 of our vacation. We took it pretty easy on Monday morning though, swimming in the pool one more time, packing up, then eating at noodles for lunch. We wanted to get one more visit in with Gpa A and Gma B, and also get both kids a nap. So to shorten the process, we went and picked up Gpa A and took him with us over to Gma B's for a visit. It was nice to visit with them without so much chaos of the big gatherings, and I think they had fun visiting with each other as well - they are friends from long back. S's parents actually played together as kids! Our kids had fun too - W wheeled Gma B's walker all over her apartment! Then we headed back to Holland to Uncle M and Auntie A's. We hadn't been there more than 5 minutes when G asked about the bunnies! Oh, the bunnies! I will have to get more pictures of the kids and the bunnies from M&A to share as the kids absolutely adored these 2 french lop fuzzballs. W knows the sign for bunnies and would do it excitedly while running after them. G had fun trying to help take care of the bunnies and get them to do tricks (yep, they know tricks!), although her favorite thing to tell us was that "bunnies don't listen to me very well!" The gray one is Charlie, and the brown one is Rufus.

Strangely enough, Uncle M was not there on Monday when we got there. He actually flew to Minneapolis over the weekend to attend a classis meeting. So Monday evening we had pizza with Auntie A and she introduced us to the best movie for our kids, hands down, The Adventures of Milo and Otis. It is all about a kitten and a puppy born on a farm and their adventures, and our kids just loved all the animals in it! And it wasn't too scary for G either (she is very sensitive about scary stuff in movies or on tv), although she did get nervous in a few parts. And it was so much fun watching W watch the movie - he would get so excited about all the animals and be signing what each one was and making the noises!

Tuesday was our last day of vacation in MI. We soaked up all the time with Uncle M and Auntie A that we could and also got packed and ready to go. Uncle M and Auntie A spent a lot of time reading books to G & W the whole time we were out there. The kids loved it, S & I loved it cuz it gave us a break from reading them (I actually read a real book over vacation!), and I think M & A loved it too. G also got to make Auntie A's favorite cookies with her Tuesday morning! Auntie A does not like chocolate, so these ready to bake sugar cookies are what she likes for a treat! And G thought it was so neat that there were pumpkin faces in them! G & W also had fun playing Auntie A's very nice electric piano and particularly liked the voice setting - they sung with as they played!


Tuesday afternoon Uncle M and Auntie A took us to the Critter Barn! Auntie A works here part time in the office. What a fun outing not only to see where Auntie A works, but to visit and pet all the animals. There is something about our kids and farms and farm animals...


Tuesday night, both kids went down easily and slept really really well as is always the case on vacation - they finally get used to a place and sleep well the night before you have to leave. But it was nice for S & I to be able to sit and have a good chat with M & A without being interrupted by waking kids every 15 minutes! Big big thanks to M & A for their wonderful hospitality while we were visiting. They both are so good with the kids and also make it so easy to stay with them - stocking up on favorite and kid-friendly food, letting us use their bedroom with the kids, and by just being plain fun to visit. We all love you very much! =) Wednesday morning we were up early to catch the train at 7:30 (when actually it left at 8:30) and on our way back home. We had a fairly good trip back - W was dealing with teeth and not happy most of the way, but nothing terribly disturbing to the other passengers. We had a fairly long layover at Union Station in Chicago which we spent most of the time in the Grand Hall letting the kids run around (I am at 28 weeks in the belly shot). Then we actually were home a little ahead of schedule and arrived at our house by 11:00 that night. Yay for vacation and fun, but a big yay for being home too. =)





Friday, October 24, 2008

our little pumpkins

I know, I know, this is not a vacation post yet! So you get to read 2 posts today about life after vacation - I just couldn't resist sharing these photos of the kids in their adorable pumpkin hats that they got in the mail yesterday from Aahma. Thank you Aahma!!!!






a, this post's for you!

Last night I did something I never ever thought I would do. I cut (well, clippered) W's hair! My good friend A gave W his first and second haircuts. She did such a nice job with her clippers even though W screamed the whole time. But then their family moved to Orange City, IA since A's hubby graduated from medical school and finally took a real job. Now that is about a 4 1/2 hour drive, and as much as I would like to, it is way too far to drive to get W's hair cut. So the next time he needed one, we took him into Kids Kuts right by our place where G gets her hair cut. G just loves it and it is a great place for kids. But W is still too little and screamed the whole time and the lady cutting his hair I think was a little thrown off by his screaming and just wanted to be done so it didn't turn out that great. W really needed a haircut before we went on vacation last week, but I didn't want to pay $12 for another iffy haircut for him. So my b.i.l. J lent me his clippers so that I could try it myself. This is something that sounded great in theory, but I was really not ready to do! I have seen and received enough bad haircuts in my days that I never want to touch anyone else's hair. S asked me to cut his hair in college because both of his roommates girlfriends cut their hair, but I refused. I actually have cut only one person's hair in my life, and that is my brother L. He gets uber short buzz cuts that look great on him and are almost a no-fail haircut to give so I was happy to cut his hair a number of times with my mom's clippers. So I told S if he wanted that hair style I would be happy to give it to him! Anyway, back to last week. Needless to say, I was too chicken, so W looked a little tufty over vacation. We got back Wednesday and yesterday I was just going to take him into Kids Kuts and get it done, but I don't know if I was channeling A, or if I was just plain crazy, but I had a surge of confidence (plus knowing they needed to go right in the tub anyway), and S held W and I clippered him while he wailed. It is not as good as A's haircuts, but better than the one we paid $12 for and it didn't cost us anything! Will I try it again for W? I think so. Will I ever cut S's hair, or even G's hair for that matter ? No way.

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P.S. I know I should have a post about our vacation to MI first, but I have to sort my thoughts and pictures out a little more before I do that - not to mention have a little more time! =) So stay tuned...

Friday, October 10, 2008

a beautiful fall day...

...yet no pictures of the trees...just our kids! We spent all afternoon on Wednesday at the Coon Rapids Dam Park. Wonderful place with miles of bike trails, the dam with a school of carp in the water to watch, a fun playground, and of course beautiful scenery and trees and 70 degrees to keep us happy for an afternoon.










Tuesday, October 7, 2008

photos

Here are some family photos that we took this past Sunday prompted by G (seriously!), and also the latest belly shot (26 weeks):



Friday, October 3, 2008

our big girl (warning - this post contains potty language! =)

Only if you are or have been the parent of a toddler do you really understand what a HUGE milestone potty training is. We bought a potty seat forever ago and started talking about it, but she wasn't ready or interested and we didn't want to force G into anything because I didn't want to "mommy train" her - too much stress and time involved! After she turned 3 we started talking about it a lot more and getting her to sit on her potty seat, but "nothing went in the potty," to quote G's favorite potty book. Then about 3 weeks ago, again to quote her potty book, "something happened!" She peed in the potty! Just once, and then waited another week before doing it again. Then it was only 3 days before she did it again, and then all of a sudden she went once on the potty 3 days in a row. Then I think it clicked in her head. She was upstairs playing and looked at S & I and said, "I think I have to pee on the potty!" Generally when she talks like that, it means she has already done it, which she has been telling us for a really long time now. But when I asked her if she had done it already, she said "NO!" and I think was even surprised herself. So we rushed down and sure enough, she peed on the potty again! Then she did it again and again, and has been peeing on the potty pretty consistently for the past week! No pooping though, but we were just ecstatic that we were this far! And with no gimics, methods, tricks or treats! Just a lot of whooping and hollering and dancing and hugs and kisses. Then 2 days ago, she pooped! Whoo-hoo! She's getting it! We have been using thicker training pants when she is doing well during the day, still using diapers when going out, for naps, distracted periods like playing with cousins and the like. But the rate she is going she is well on her way to big girl underwear and we are well on our way to not having to have 3 in diapers. Oh yeah.

All is not roses though! Once things have started you have to deal with situations like these:

1. We - G, W and I - are running late, G is all ready to go out with a diaper on, I have W strapped in the car, and as I am getting G in, she tells me she has to go potty. Ug! What do I do? I don't want her to regress at all, but she has a diaper on, we are late, W is in the car, so I said that we couldn't go back in and she would either have to hold it or pee in her diaper just this once. What an awful mother!
2. We - again G, W and I - are in REI shopping. W is asleep on my shoulder, we have a mitful of stuff, are trying to try on shoes without waking W up, and G looks at me and says ever so sweetly "Momma, I have to go to the bathroom." Grrr! Guilt pangs from when I told her to pee in her diaper the day before get me though and we go to find a restroom and have to wake W up so I can help G who peed marvelously in her first public restroom. She did ask me where the potty seats for girls were though! =)
3. In church today, I take W out to try to get him to sleep(poor boy is teething!), and S & G soon follow because G 1st says she pooped in her diaper. Nope, false alarm, so they go back in. 5 minutes later they come out again G saying that she has to poop on the potty and wants Momma to help! So we truck all the way downstairs, but she of course doesn't. She at least peed so I wasn't too perturbed. Back up and into church with dadda. Out again 10 minutes later saying she has to poop again. Luckily I have W asleep by this time, pass him off to dadda, and this time she actually did poop! Good thing we sit in the back of church with all the in and out we had today.


So potty training does have it's annoyances, but overall it is wonderful to see our big girl growing up and doing so well with it. Yay G!