happy thoughts...

OK. I know lots of times we focus on the negative and the things that are going wrong (why is that by the way?), but I thought I'd look at some of the wonderful things that are happening for us right now. (I'm slightly "over-analytical" so I'll list things by persons)

S - I'm able to be home for 5 wks AND get paid for it! That's right 5 weeks! It has been a wonderful benefit to help out during the adjustment periods for C and the kids along with getting a greater appreciation for the life of a stay at home mom (yikes - full time job PLUS some.) And I get some great time with the kids and get to have fun with them all day, every day for a while and not have to hurry out the door to get to work etc...

C - has been able to get back on her feet and back into "super mom" mode rather quickly. I am amazed how she is able to balance everything and keep track of things going on with the kids so well (not that things are perfect - but her batting percentage is much higher than mine would be!)

G - she has fully embraced the "biggest sister" role wonderfully. She constantly is checking on baby C and wants to hold/kiss/talk to/sing/help/play with/watch him. Plus, she has been able to play with W so much more lately. And most of the time that is a good thing. We have often found them reading books together, playing hide -n- seek, running / chasing after each other.

W - he has a amazing vocabulary for an 18 month old. He seems sooo much older and bigger when he says "sit doun, read ook peese dada" (requesting a book to be read to him). And then he will proceed to tell you / recite some books to you. He can be the happiest and silliest boy when he wants to. He has the mischievous smirk down to a "t."

baby C - Sleeps and poops like a champ. What more can you ask for at this age? He has his nights and days straight and a couple nights ago slept almost 6 hours before waking up and eating.

So, that is a snapshot of the good life in our household . . . (accompanied by an actual snapshot!)

sleep, sweet sleep...

...is what all of us are in need of right now. Anyone who knows our kids knows that they are notoriously bad sleepers and they deal with nightmares and night terrors and cannot calm themselves. All parents deal with some issue with their kids (at least all the parents that we know!), and ours happens to be sleep. Combine that with everyone adjusting to a newborn in the house and we are having some really rough nights. W's been having the worst time at night, but it has affected G too.

The other night, for example, it took us until 10 to get G&W down, then another 1/2 hour for changing and nursing Baby C and getting him to sleep. S & I then sat down with bowls of ice cream ready to relax for an hour before going to bed ourselves, praying for a peaceful night. At 11, W woke up crying and restless and it took us almost 45 minutes to get him calmed down and back to sleep. We then started to get ready for bed ourselves and G woke up crying really hard and couldn't stop - like for another hour! We finally got her calmed down and were in bed (with G too), when W woke up again screaming-he was very mad this time and didn't want to be picked up (sign of night terror), but kept flailing into the side of his crib. We kept switching off with him for the next hour and didn't think anything would calm him down including TV, when it popped in my head to try listening to different music. I asked W if he wanted to listen to Uncle M's CD, and then there was quiet - wonderful quiet - and W says tearily "yeah." So now W was quiet and listening to Uncle M, but we are still not sleeping, and W is so upset that he is clinging to us and we can't get him to lay back down in his bed - so after another half hour we pulled him in bed with us too. (we are starting to regret only buying a queen, not a king!) It is now 1:30, and cue Baby C to wake up to eat! I nurse in bed so now we have EVERYONE in bed with us. I thought that maybe everyone would sleep now all snuggly, but no. Both G&W were up 2 more times (being all in the same room/bed had no matter because only one would wake up at a time - even with screaming going on!) as well as Baby C's normal "feed me" wakings every 3 hours. Plus all kids decided to be done and up for the day at 6:30. S and I got no more than 3-4 hours of sleep and our nerves were pretty shot. Not every night is like this, this was by far the worst, but we are dealing with some form of it each night yet.

Thankfully, the kids have been doing well (for the most part) during the day. They love Baby C, have been playing well with each other, only have mild breakdowns here and there, and W has been taking a good nap during the day and G has been going down for quiet time well so S & I are able to allow each other to take a good nap. Unfortunately, that leaves very little time to get anything else done, especially with us feeling as fried as we do too. We keep hoping that the kids will adjust soon, and I am sure that they will, but S was hoping to accomplish more than just a nap in the 5 weeks that he has off (paid!!) from work.

We may complain about no sleep, but we love our little blessings, no matter how sleep deprived we are, and are thrilled with the joy that all three bring to our lives. It is amazing how we already can't imagine life without Baby C!

which one of these is not like the other....

And now, what you have all been waiting for.....we got our "new" computer!!!! Oh, I guess that is mostly what we've been waiting for. =) More on that later. What most of you have been waiting for is the answers and points for our little guessing game! Drumroll from Justin please......

....(he's good so I will let him go for a while =)

#1 is Baby C
#2 is G
#3 is W

Yay! Thanks to all who guessed and played along!

1 million points to those who guessed correctly!!! A measly 17 points for those who got 1 out of 3. And a required trip to the B household to study the subjects up close (and let mom and dad sneak a nap!) for those who where completely fooled by the ridiculously similar characteristics of our beautiful wonderful children.

Just kidding - you all may visit anytime (we might be needing naps for a while!) Maybe not all at once =)

guess who's who!

We gave baby C his first bath at home last week and obviously took a bunch of pictures that we can't upload quite yet (but we will be able to soon!!!! =), but I was able to get one off the camera onto the computer and we noticed how similar it was to pictures of G&W after their first baths at home! So after finding those (yay for search function on gmail and never having to delete emails!), we thought we would see if you can guess which picture belongs to who! And now, in no particular order;

#1
#2

#3
Points will be given for all correct answers (for those who care to keep track =)! Have fun!

"tanning"

When we left the hospital with Baby C (we often asked ourselves, did we really need to even go to the hospital?! =), he had borderline bilirubin numbers for being jaundice. This was something we dealt with G & W as well so we knew the routine - get sun exposure, nurse them like crazy and pray they poop a bunch! G was born premature so she had to be under photo-therapy lights at the hospital for a number of days, but with W we were able to get rid of his without the lights, so we were hoping the same for Baby C (wow, that is weird calling him Baby C rather than baby B!! =). We had an appointment on Monday to check him out, and we knew it wasn't getting better by his color. They drew his levels and he was at 17.9, which is high. So we had to get a photo-therapy bed delivered and start the process of keeping him on that as much as possible and also going in everyday to our pediatrician (oh why do we like our pediatrician so when she is 30 minutes away!) to check his weight and draw blood for bilirubin levels. Baby C did remarkably well having to be on this light bed although it was hard for momma and dadda not to hold him so much! Thankfully we found out that his bilirubin level is now at 11.7, a much more acceptable number, although still not in the clear, but we are able to stop photo-therapy now and as long as he keeps eating and pooping and gaining weight, we don't have to go in until next week to do a final check! Thanks for all the prayers - God is truly blessing us and watching over us!

Here are a few pictures - sorry for the poor quality, computer is still kaput and although I figured out a way to get this pictures from the camera, I couldn't preview which ones looked ok or edit anything either!

G keeping baby C company as he spends time on his light bed. We commented that we would have to send Nanna K this picture as she probably never had such a contraption in this bassinet when she used it for my mom and her siblings!

Baby C "tanning" - we were teasing him that Auntie C has just started tanning for their upcoming tropical vacations, maybe he could go with!!! =)

birth from a different angle

For those of you who want the full version of the events surrounding Baby C's birth....our wonderful sil wrote about the night from her perspective after we had left in the ambulance and has posted it (with permission, of course!) on her blog. It is a great account of the whole evening along with some wonderful pics.


Thanks again, C. We are forever greatful for your part in Baby C's birth, and your "expertise" made the potential craziness into a beautiful birth.

welcome our newest blessing...

...Carsten Thomas!

8 lbs, 5 oz, 21.5 inches long, 13.25 in head circumference, and born 1/1/09 @ 12:58 am on our front couch delivered by wonderful Auntie C! Yeah, you read that right! The short version of the story is that my labor progressed way too quickly, and we realized we were not going to make it to the hospital in time, much less even the car to try. The Lord was watching over us all and with our midwife on the phone, S helping me, and my mom watching on and praying, Baby C was born into the waiting hands of Auntie C, who had recently arrived to help watch G and W. Everything was great and the ambulance arrived shortly to take the 3 of us to the hospital. Now we are all happy to be home and excited to start the adventure of life with the 5 of us.

Our computer is still kaput, so here are a few pictures from Auntie C (thanks C...for everything!)

PRAISE GOD FROM WHOM ALL BLESSINGS FLOW!!!

there's just something about kids singing at christmas...

I know you all haven't seen many pictures on our blog lately due to our computer problems, and it may be a while yet! But being it is Christmas this week, I have to share these wonderful photos I stole from sil C's blog (hope you don't mind, C!) of the girls singing at their Christmas program. Yeah, it wasn't our idea to put the 2 G's together, because that could have spelled trouble or at least distraction, but they did great and aren't they just too cute?!

Away in the Manger
Angels from the Realms of Glory (they are doing "wing your flight", while the boys are trying to play it cool next to them =)
And don't forget cute big cousin K singing too!
I love watching and listening to kids sing at Christmas, and it makes it even more special when it is your own children or nieces! (Oh, and W may not have been up there, but he can do all the actions to the girl's songs too!)

umm...are we still here?

Yes, we are still here. No baby news yet - I am at 36+ weeks and past the scary don't go into labor yet stage which is wonderful. Feeling good yet, having good appointments with our wonderful midwife K, actually thankful for the cold and dry air outside as I am not nearly as hot and swollen as I was at the end of W's pregnancy, and slightly freaking out each day about things we would like to get done before Baby B3 comes and also the realization that this itty bitty could come at any moment or wait to make his/her appearance for another couple of weeks!

I was completely planning on doing a big post about G's birth when I reached "G day" which was Fri Dec 5. On that day I was 34 weeks, 5 days which was how far along when G was born. But that was also the day that our computer died. Like dead died - motherboard is fried. Makes us crabby as this computer is less than 3 years old and had the motherboard replaced 2 years ago while still under warranty. Also made me sick to my stomach as we had not backed up for a number of months and there were so many pictures on the computer that I don't have hard copies of! Luckily computer savvy bil J was able to get all of our data off the computer once Mom B brought us their old computer to use in the meantime. Yay J! =) But boy, 4 days without internet access much less a computer at all is really tough! Shows how the times have changed as 10 years ago it wouldn't have been nearly as big a deal for us. So we had slower (am sure that is why Mom and Dad B just upgraded!) access to the internet and all our files again which also made trying to post something frustrating, so I just left it. Then I was going to at least post a new baby belly shot or some sort of we are still here post last weekend, but then borrowed computer also died. Sorry Mom and Dad B - hope you didn't have plans for this one! Once again bil J to the rescue sending over the magic Ubuntu disk which at least lets us get to the internet which was helpful as we had 3 internet orders to place for Christmas and needed to make the shipping deadline! (He also sent over another disk in case ubuntu didn't work called "Kill Hard Drive!" - happy it didn't have to come to that. =) Once again still running slow, which is frustrating when you are used to faster speeds and/or need to look something up REAL QUICK before children attack you or have a meltdown. Then S installed more ram from our old computer (which is what seemed to kill Mom and Dad's computer the first time he tried it - "DEATH RAM!!!" =), and it worked this time with Ubuntu and we are running at a little bit better speed now so I feel like we can at least function normally on the internet. But no access to printer or pictures so my rambling is all you get for today.

In other events that have happened since last post, right after Thanksgiving we put up our small tree which had fun additions this year of childhood ornaments of S's that his mom found, and a new quilted tree skirt from my Gma K! She also made us stockings which are also beautiful that are hanging up and really make us feel Christmasy! I would love to post pics of them, but yeah... Thanks so much Gma!! We love them. Then we had B Christmas the first weekend in December. It was a lovely time with everyone coming up to A/CR. We spent Saturday afternoon at our place with just the girls making Christmas cookies while the boys volunteered with our church at Operation Christmas Child. Then Saturday evening we went downtown for a pizza supper at one of our favorite pizza places, Pizza Luce, and then to see the Holidazzle parade, a Christmas tradition we have been doing with J&C and family since moving here to the cities. Then Sunday after church we spent a lovely afternoon and evening at J&C's with a soup, bread and salad meal, gifts for kids (adults gave their gift $$ to charities this year), plenty of munchies and yummy cheesecake, and good fellowship with all. Check out dear sil C's post here to see a few pictures and read more about it! Then last Sunday evening we had our Christmas program at church. Oh so fun with G singing "Who made Ocean Earth and Sky," "Away in the Manger," and this years favorite "Angels from the REALMS of Glory" (extra enthusiasm on the REALMS! =). S & I also were singing with the adult choir, but poor W got sick with the crud the night before and we weren't quite sure what to do with sick W while we sang 3 numbers at the end of the service. Who do you pick to give a hacky snotty unhappy boy to? Then we thought maybe one of us just shouldn't sing and stay down with him. But we both love to sing and we only have church choir 1 or 2 times a year so neither of us really wanted to say "Oh go ahead, you sing, I will hold W!" Solution? Just take W up there with us! I was standing on the end of the front row, so I just held W with the plans to make a quick exit if he fussed or made a scene. He was wonderful, fascinated with J, our choir director, as she waved our hands, and luckily I still had enough breath support even while holding him and Baby B3 in belly to still squeak out a few notes. =)

The crud. So not worth writing about. No sleep (literally! One night at 3 when up for the 15th time with W I commented to S that if I went into labor they might as well wheel me in hook me up to the drugs adn give me a c-section cuz there would be no go left in me!), nothing accomplished besides holding and comforting sick babies, and then getting it ourselves. W is getting over it though so hopefully we will all be feeling better by the time all our company comes!

Yes, we are having the whole R crew here for Christmas (or the weekend after Christmas) including Nanna, Boppa, Aahma, L, J, M & A! And S and I are taking this Christmas very low key, realizing I don't need to stress about anything so we are not uber cleaning, uber planning, or trying to be uber-hosts, we are just going to let people come, have space for them to crash, have food in the house, and just enjoy being together. S said that if I stress, he is going to throw everyone out! =) Many hands make light work of everything and we have a wonderful family who always wants to lend a hand so it should be a great time. And if Baby B3 comes while everyone is here that will just be a bonus! Christmas Day is "W day" as he was born at 37 weeks 5 days!

Well, I should be paying bills, doing more baby stuff or baby lists or figuring out what we are going to name this little one yet, or doing housework, but I wanted to get an update out for all of you that we emailed the blog address out to a month ago and then haven't posted a word! (plus, W is sleeping and G is playing so nicely with play dough so I feel like I can sit for a little bit =) Don't know when we will post again - maybe with baby news? maybe with Christmas fun? maybe just randomly, but we will for sure talk with you all later. In case we don't post again before next week, may you all have a blessed blessed Christmas and enjoy time with family and friends reflecting on the wonderful gift that God gave us through Jesus and all the other blessings that He has given us. I know we surely will be!

33 weeks

I have been asked to give a new belly shot update, and I realized we hadn't taken one in a while! I will reiterate, I hate these shots when I look at them, but I know they are fun for others and good pictures to have for itty bitty B3 to look at when he or she is older. And I thought it might be fun to see the progression so far, so here is a collage of shots (23 weeks - 26 weeks - 28 weeks - 33 weeks)!